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From time to time I find educational opportunities online that I believe will help raise awareness and increase safety. The video below caught my attention awhile back. My intention in posting and sharing this material is to help set dogs and children up for successful interaction. Dogs communicate very differently then we do. Often we see things from the human eye instead of how the dog sees it. I hope this video & podcast are helpful.

Not safe or funny interaction

Stay tuned for this weeks podcast where Jennifer Shryock will discuss what is really happening in this video.

A day at the park

The park is a great place for kids to be free and let their energy out. Some dogs enjoy being around this type of activity while others do not. Recognizing your dog and their senstivities can help you, your dog and others at the park have a successful visit.
Here are things to consider:
1. Does your dog greet new people with a relaxed wag and eager approach?
2. Does your dog listen and follow your directions?
3. Has your dog been around lots of active children before? (if not then introduce this scenereo in short successful visits and gradually extend the time and interaction....go slow!)
4. Will your children need your hands on supervision? If so how will you handle this?

Below is a situation that I commonly see. A Mom is tending to the immediate needs of a young child. Meanwhile......the dog and children are interacting while the dog is stressed. Notice the tail tucked between the legs, observe teh curving of the shoulder area as the dog is curling downward and away from the children. Is this fair? Is this safe? As the Mother of three young children I understand this situation all too well. I too enjoy taking our dog/s places but often do not unless my husband is there to help supervise both kids and dog.

Here are some things to consider when deciding if your dog should tag along at the playground or if this may be a time for him to stay at home.

1. Is it a GORGROUS day and the park will be crowded?
2. Are your children independent enough that you will be able to supervise your dog as unfamiliar children approach and want to engage?

3. Are you comfortable declining offers to pet your dog if your dog is demonstrating stress? A good option in this situation is to say to a child or children that your dog would rather show off a trick instead of being pet right now. Have a plan.

4. What if another dog is there? How will your dog respond? Think about how many children will be approaching asking to pet your dog. If your dog does not get along with other dogs, this can put everyone in a bad spot.

5. What if your child is hurt and needs your full attention? What is the plan then?

I encourage families to include their dogs in everyday activities as much as possible. Visits to the park, vacation trips and car rides are fun to share. It is however important for us to set up ourselves and our dogs to be successful while we enjoy these outings. We can not control the actions or responses of others. It is our responsibility to monitor and respond to the reactions and signals our dogs are offering while in these stimulating situations and engaging with many different children.

Tips for parents & meeting unfamiliar dogs: http://familypaws.com/dogbiteprevention/

http://www.doggonesafe.com/dog%20communication.htm

Leave it command

Carin loves to show off her stubborness in this clip. Kayleigh is not often the one to practice "leave it" with her and you can see she takes advantage of this. But after several times....she listens and follows through! Yeah carin!

Relaxing following the feast!

Bailey enjoyed the day hanging out and "taking it easy."
Bailey and I and my son Andrew and Bailey. As you can see he has a hard time relaxing! :)







We hope everyone had a great Thanksgiving!

Holiday & the hounds.

http://www.familypaws.com/podcast/thanksgiving.mp3
Doggie thoughts of the Holidays.
As the holidays approach and you make your plans, keep in mind that stress and changes in routine can impact your dog's behavior. Often we get frustrated and are on edge as there is so much to do to prepare for dinners, visits and other celebrations.
Keep in mind that as you are busy rushing around, your dog is observing and sensing changes in you. They may "act out" if and when usual attention seeking methods do not work. This is predictable and can be avoided by being aware and maintaining some of the usual routines your dog is comfortable with.
The following playback of an anonymous dog hopefully will help you to understand what your dog may be experiencing. Enjoy!
... from a Dog's Mind
Hi, my name is Carin. I am a spunky young and beautiful female dog. I am writing to share an experience with you that we dogs feel needs to be addressed and understood by all of our 2 legged friends. So, here is the story!
This morning was different than most. My 2 legged friend got up before I was ready and convinced me it was time to go "potty" in the dark. Seems a bit backwards from my point of view and I was a bit thrown off. Anyway, I went with her odd idea of going potty before the sun came up.
It is only every now and then that she does this odd routine change. This means our whole day is unpredictable. What is she thinking!?! As I am out there doing "potty" she is rushing me. What is wrong with her!?! Geesh, I have not gotten an opportunity to sniff properly to strategically place my gift to the earth. "Let's go Carin." she says as she heads back for the door. As I turn away from the opportunity to explore and leave more gifts, I wander in behind her back indoors.
I head for the bedroom but no, this is not where my 2 legged friend is headed. She is really confusing me. I follow her to the kitchen and figure I will just snuggle up here for a nap and ignore her apparent memory loss about the sun coming up and our relaxing time in bed together for a morning cuddle. Seems she has forgotten altogether about that as I watch her from under the table. She even nudged me with her foot once not paying attention to my being there. Something is definitely different about today.
As I try to catch up on my interrupted sleep, I am aware of many things. My 2 legged friend is rushing from place to place. The phone is ringing and she is busy doing things I am not too happy about. She uses this loud thing that eats things off the floor. I used to chase it but that was not appreciated. Now I know to go to the corner to observe the beast. Then once she had finished with that beast she was using the spray bottle with something YUCKY smelling in it. YIKES! I recall one time getting squirted by a spray bottle once when I went to visit my feline friend's potty area. I was only trying to help and clean up but it seems that too was not appreciated. As I keep my distance to watch her use the spray bottle I can not stop sneezing! What is in that! YUCK! My friend is putting it everywhere and wiping things. I sneeze, and shake off my fur hoping it will go away.
I tried to follow my person around to make sure she did not altogether loose control. After all nothing was normal about this day so far and I was concerned. I ended up going back to my spot under the kitchen table as clearly she did not understand my concern and dedication to making sure she was fine. I was apparently in the way and although my sneezes were cute that was all I heard from her accept "go lay down" and a lot of "move it". I am confused and tired.
Finally my person comes into the kitchen. YEAH! Maybe now things will go back to usual. I get up and stretch and go over to greet her. She pats me on the head. This annoys me! What about a scratch of the ears???? No, she is busy. I continue to wonder what is going on today!
Then I see it. She reaches in the refrigerator and pulls out this HUGE great smelling sight! Oooooohhhhhh, aaaahhhhhh wag, wag, wiggle wiggle! I am so excited as it smells so good. She tells me "go lay down! Not for you!" Darn! As I go back to my spot under the table I hear her talking to the large bird she is touching instead of me. Now I am very confused. She puts this item in the oven and then heads out of the kitchen.
I follow her and now, yep now she is going to the bedroom. It seems today she wants to sleep when the sun is up. How odd?!? I join her in the bedroom and then realize I have to go "potty." I wiggle by the bed, and lick her hand and wiggle some more. She invites me on the bed but I HAVE TO GO POTTY! I can not stop wiggling! She is resting and gets irritated as I am wiggling so now she tells me "off!" What am I going to do? I have to go!?! I bark, and wiggle and circle but she is now asleep. I go to the door hoping it might open on its own or she will hear me but then I realize my body relieved itself. I tried to go outside and to let my person know but it is a weird day and I am not sure what to do. I now go and lay down in the bedroom with my person. It is naptime for now.
The above is a doggie point of view about how things can change around the holidays. Many of us will have guests visit and will be busy and changing our normal routines. Keep in mind that your dog is paying attention to you and your level of stress at these times. Often dogs become stressed due to routine changes.
It is important to think of ways to help your dog stay to a comfortable routine even as you are busy preparing for a big family dinner or gathering. If you normally have a quiet home with few visitors it is even more important that your dog has the comfort of routine during the day when you will be having many young and old visitors in your home. If your dog is stressed due to a lack of routine during the day then they will be less tolerant once the guests arrive.
Here are some points to remember when you have large gatherings in your home:
· If there are children visiting the dog/s and children must not be unsupervised even for a short period of time.
· Sometimes putting a leash on your dog may help them to feel more secure.
· Let your dog visit for short periods and then secure them away from the activity if you can not observe them.
· Observe your dog's body language. Licking lips, turning head away, yawning, shaking, lifting paws etc may be subtle cues to you that your dog is a bit stressed or is anticipating conflict of some sort. Pay attention and allow breaks from the busy activities.
· Be aware of people sneaking your dog tidbits that may come out on the rug later on!
· Respect your dog's tolerance limit. If you notice your dog looking for a quiet spot then provide one.
· Allow your dog to have their own celebration treat with a stuffed kong or other yummy treat. Frozen filled kongs are wonderful for these times.
Most of all enjoy your family and friends and stay safe this Holiday Season!
Jennifer Shryock B.A. CDBC
www.familypaws.com
www.dogsandstorks.com